Sunday, 13 February 2011

TRUE LOVE


It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly gentleman in his 80's arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.
He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.I took his vital signs and had him take a seat,
knowing it would be over an hour before someone 
would to able to see him.
I saw him looking at his watch anddecided, since I was not busy with another patient,
I would evaluate his wound.On exam, it was 
well healed, so I talked to one of the
doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound.
While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he
had another doctor's appointment this morning, as 
he was in such a hurry.
He needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife. I inquired as to her health. He told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.
As we talked, I asked if she would be
upset if he was a bit late. 
He replied that she no longer knew
who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.I was surprised, and asked him, 'And you still go every 
morning, even though she
doesn't know who you are?' 
He smiled as he patted my hand and said,
'She doesn't 
know me, but I still know who she is..'

I had to hold back tears as he left, I had goose bumps
on my arm, and thought, 'That is the kind of love I want in my life.' 
True love is neither physical, nor romantic.
True love is an acceptance of all that is, 
has been, will be, and will not be.

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